How would it feel to do only what you want in your work and your life?
Never forcing yourself when you feel uncomfortable but focusing on what’s easy, inspiring and just right for you instead.
I’ve lived this way many times over the years because my intuition was so clear that forcing was cutting off my ability to experience true happiness and success. My vision doesn’t revolve around obligation, it’s much more about freedom and choice.
When I work with clients on doing what they want instead of forcing what they don’t, everything changes. Decisions are easier, motivation increases and they start getting real results - like new jobs, ideal clients, bursts of income and opportunities they love.
They also get a huge sense of relief that translates to all areas because the way they’re working and living actually fits.
If this all sounds intriguing to you, here are three things to consider.
Let go and create some space
When you stop spending time on things that drain you, it’s an important lesson in self-care. Your system gets a much needed rest and soon you have energy for activities that match your desire.
This includes projects, places and even people that are too much or not enough for you - leaving you overwhelmed, uncomfortable or feeling like you’re wasting time.
While these reactions can make you worry something’s wrong with YOU, they really show up to help you let go so you can usher in something better. You don’t have to let go of everything of course, but releasing the negative to make room for the good stuff will literally transform your life.
Pay attention to your body
It’s actually pretty simple to make decisions on what’s a yes or a no when you tune into your body.
Basically, if it feels good, you’re on the right track.
When I’m upleveling, my body gives me strong signals - like an upset stomach or a fuzzy head - so it’s really hard for me to do things that just don’t fit. As my body learns to trust that I’ll choose what’s best or simply wait until I’m ready, my symptoms subside and everything get easier.
While it’s important to track your symptoms and be sure you're healthy, your body can be your ally and guide you to what works.
Find your fit and get results
On a professional level, forcing things that don’t feel good can really get in the way.
While you can make modest gains when it comes to results, big shifts occur when you’re behind what you’re doing. If something in your job or business doesn’t suit you, that translates.
The good news is if you adjust certain activities so they feel better to you, you can still get powerful results. Like when my client dreaded her own seminars and started hosting them in a lovely restaurant instead of a boring conference room, she doubled her business in the end.
So do yourself a favor and focus your time and energy on what you love most in your work and life…and just watch what happens to your success.
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